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A private relationship memory for moments that keep echoing.

Make sense of the moment.Remember what happens next.

Talk or type through a confusing interaction. Niki separates what happened, how it felt, and what remains unknown—then helps you notice repetition, change, accountability, and repair over time.

Live guided example

Behavior, not labels

Replies clear after your visit

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Start with what was observed. Meaning can stay open.

A fine pointer changes Niki’s pose—not the answer.

One moment helps you reflect.What follows helps you see.

Most advice stops at the first interpretation. Niki is designed to remember the parts that make context possible: what you observed, how it affected you, what you asked for, and whether anything changed.

Near-time notes are still one person’s perspective—not objective truth. The point is a more inspectable record, not a verdict.

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Talk it through. Keep what matters.

Continue a sample moment with Niki. Turn the useful pieces into an editable journal entry, then see how a pattern can take shape over time.

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Relationship clarity · guided example

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You · sample moment

Last week I asked them not to joke about something private. Tonight they did it again. When I went quiet, they said I was too sensitive. Am I overreacting?

Niki

You made a clear request, the same behavior happened again, and your reaction was debated. We can hold that separately from what we still cannot know.

What happened after you raised it?

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Use a sample situation and leave out names. For a live reply, the sample scene and what you type are sent to Cloudflare. Niki clears the conversation and journal when you start over or refresh.

Long-term private memory is in development. If someone may monitor your device or account, keeping relationship notes may be unsafe.

How Niki is designed to remember.

The guided example shows short-term reflection. Niki’s product direction brings user-reviewed moments, dated patterns, and clear memory controls together over time.

Product direction

Moment Map

30 days

Based on 4 sample Moments

Repair appeared after 1 of 3 raised concerns.The other two outcomes are recorded as unknown—not “no repair.”
  1. 03 Jul

    A plan changedImpact not raised
  2. 11 Jul

    A boundary was namedFollow-up unknown
  3. 19 Jul

    A concern was acknowledgedBehavior changed the next time
  4. 27 Jul

    The boundary was tested againAwaiting follow-up

Brief moment capture

Available in example

Talk or type the untidy version, then check Niki’s split before anything becomes memory.

User-reviewed pattern memory

Product direction

Bring related moments together with dates, counts, counterexamples, and direct links back to each entry.

Accountability and repair follow-ups

Shown in example

Return after the first conversation to record acknowledgment, changed behavior, or an outcome that is still unknown.

Forget, exclude, export, delete

Product direction

Every remembered item needs a visible source and user control. Security and privacy review come before launch.

CDC · United States · 2023/24 data

30.2%of women reported lifetime psychological aggression by an intimate partner; 22.3% of men did.

Research belongs in the product—not just the pitch.

The need is real. So are the limits of population statistics, self-report, memory, and software inference. Our Research page shows the source, sample, date, definition, and caveat behind each major evidence claim.

CDC’s measure combines expressive aggression and coercive control/entrapment. It is not an NPD measure, and a population statistic says nothing about an individual relationship.

See evidence

Notice behavior.Refuse the false certainty.

Niki can help organize repeated boundary responses, reliability, minimization, accountability, and repair. It cannot establish intent, diagnose NPD, score a person, verify an event, or decide whether you should stay or leave.

A feeling is valid information. It is not automatic proof of another person’s intent, personality, or diagnosis.

Safety →

Your private life should not become someone else’s dataset.

The waitlist stores only the information you choose to provide. The guided example processes the sample reply you type and clears the conversation after your visit.

Personal memory is being designed around minimal collection, pseudonyms, deletion controls, explicit consent, and user control over every remembered moment.

Privacy →

Help shape a relationship memory that earns your trust.

Join the waitlist for guided Moments, pattern memory, and thoughtful product updates. Your feedback will help shape how Niki handles privacy, memory, and control.

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No private conversations are required. Research contact is optional. Unsubscribe at any time.

Questions worth answering plainly.

Is Niki therapy?

Niki is a relationship-clarity tool for adults. Therapy, legal or medical advice, emergency help, and trusted human support each have a different role.

Does Niki diagnose NPD?

No. Niki does not diagnose NPD or any mental-health condition, and it will not produce a narcissism probability, toxicity score, or personality verdict.

Is Niki only for women?

Niki is designed for adults across genders, orientations, and consensual relationship structures.

What happens to what I type?

The sample scene and your short reply go to Cloudflare to generate Niki’s response. Niki clears the conversation after your visit and keeps it out of the waitlist database and analytics. Use a sample situation and leave out names, contact details, screenshots, and private messages.

What is Niki designed to organize?

Niki’s product direction is a private, user-controlled Moment log that separates observations, feelings, interpretations, needs, patterns, and repair. Sensitive memory will ship only with clear consent, deletion, privacy, and safety controls.

Is Niki free?

Pricing has not been chosen. The optional waitlist question helps us understand whether people prefer free access, a modest subscription, or a one-time format.

When will beta access begin?

Waitlist members will hear about research and beta access according to the consent choices they make. A launch date will be shared when the experience is ready.

How do I leave the waitlist?

Use the unsubscribe link in any Niki email. It opens a confirmation page and requires a deliberate action, so email security scanners cannot remove you by accident.